GIVE & TAKE, A LOST SOUL'S RATCHET HEART.

Give, do not take, love cannot be one-sided if the intentions are pure!

What happens if I do not receive something in return? 

It portrays a sense of in-appreciation for most human beings. 

I certainly believe that people have grown a feel of entitlement when it comes to this conversation. I will talk about myself for instance, A girl of my calibre does not need to give something back to prove her affection for me, after all I am a man, I am not insecure and I am assured. It takes a unique female soul to make a man feel this way, unfortunately women these days, even the "Holy ones'' do not possess that quality. I can make an example, You wine and dine a girl and expect privileges after, why is that?. Before any transaction, you did not feel any entitlement.

Women are so used to this trap they feel obligated to give back to you when you display a little act of kindness.My courage to approach a complex topic of this magnitude takes an experienced heart to share publicly. Nowadays, women willingly go way and beyond to find themselves in these situations. They have their own reasons, who am I to judge? They do it for money, some for benefits, some for privilege and many other things. I would rather be assured that she is happy in every way possible than to maintain a relationship based on what I give and receive back. What happens if I can not gift you anymore? There will be another one who can give you way more than I could ever give, so surely I will no longer hold much value in your give and take heart.

Have you ever overheard women conversations on this topic? They usually praise men related to their givings and rate them accordingly. Oh friend, Victor was a great guy he once bought me a BMW, the friends advice, I like Marcus more he got you a House in the suburb and bought you a Porsche.What happens if there is another one who gifts a private jet and offer marriage? or lucky you Mrs ''give and take'' you get gifted an island by another one? So, divorce is certain in that situation because the gift is larger than the one you are used to. Check the number of relationships in that process. Worse human beings are dishonest. I have been reflecting on my previous experiences, if you keep on wanting things, you shall never be fulfilled.

A happy life without divorce and fighting? Is it possible? I believe it is possible if people start valuing loyalty, I got to this point in my life believing loyalty is love. I just have not met someone with a lion heart. Look at animals, as vulnerable as they are, they mate and stay loyal to their Prides and Packs. A wolf can never willingly mate with a Hyena, same goes for every living thing and unto humans. Humans fail because they have the knowledge but behave like savages. Obviously the initial sin brought death, so every living thing is linked to human behavior.

Human beings ate the fruit of knowledge, they messed up a seed that controls every living thing, I can make an example, Men kill for women, Lions kill for females, birds and all creation follow the human leader. What would I recommend at this point and time? Knowing humans as I do, I highly recommend the termination of Adams bloodline. He has failed with life long miracles, the bible is an ancient book that is testament to Adams inaccuracy and lack of focus over one simple thing "Intercourse". 

Noah did not finish, Moses did not finish, David did not finish, Solomon the Wise did not finish and many other men given the opportunity. They fail over one character flaw, that is leadership, it is the main reason that got them cursed out of the Garden. Fast track to Generation Alpha? Bombs detonate regularly , guns kill daily and who is to be blamed? The forefather not Satan. He said ''Let us create men in our image'', it means everything the devil can do, you can do too. Instead he was not focused enough to protect his female companion from taking a bite while they told him, you eat there, you die. People die now, animals and all living things because of one man who could not manage love.