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THE OFFISH ROMANCE. A self-mended heart, my 2years constructive journey. Be jolly, positive and peaceful.  Many neglect their gut feeling and submit to emotions, only to later drown in sorrow. Being expressive about the way you feel is by far the best remedy to healing. My council to anyone who is going through the phase of heartbreak, "Love can be overwhelming". Always consider reason over affection, our counterparts know which areas we are prone to crumble. The unrefined may use it against you. Do not overlook the truth and maintain the relationship based on societal etiquette. I am certain that is where most of us fumble. When you are truly inlove, you tend to invest your time and energy to making sure that the union doesn't turn out to be a failure. Why do we overlook tocsins at the beginning, only to grumble after the goosebump juncture? You call most of the time, you are the one messaging, you always set up dates and many other anxieties. Do not turn a blind eye jus...
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 A  PRECISE ARROW, STRAIGHT TO THE HEART. A hole to be filled by a Mrs. Meaningless deception phrases used by females in an effort to lead you astray from your noble cause. I love you. I care. You are a man. I feel your pain. Only to stick a knife back again,See if I bleed madam. I have had my fair-share of love and heartbreak, I would say I am fortunate enough not to fall for the same vigorous lies. I have learned to observe and access behavioral similarities by surveying their common  inaccuracies. Women are assured that all men go the extra mile to ''please'' up to a point it may cost us the air we breathe. Well, I see men rushing towards certain disappointment and failure. This reading is testament to my recurring experience, one would naturally assume that it is a curse or rather a personality default. In reality, the truth is there for everyone to realize and not turn a blind eye. Wealth or poorer, women expect men to fill every cavity to the brim. Do you think it...
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GIVE & TAKE, A LOST SOUL'S RATCHET HEART. Give, do not take, love cannot be one-sided if the intentions are pure! What happens if I do not receive something in return?  It portrays a sense of in-appreciation for most human beings.  I certainly believe that people have grown a feel of entitlement when it comes to this conversation. I will talk about myself for instance, A girl of my calibre does not need to give something back to prove her affection for me, after all I am a man, I am not insecure and I am assured. It takes a unique female soul to make a man feel this way, unfortunately women these days, even the "Holy ones'' do not possess that quality. I can make an example, You wine and dine a girl and expect privileges after, why is that?. Before any transaction, you did not feel any entitlement. Women are so used to this trap they feel obligated to give back to you when you display a little act of kindness.My courage to approach a complex topic of this magnitude...
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AN ADDICTION MANKIND COULD NOT DENY WAS A ROMANTIC LOVE STORY.  A drug lethal enough to make one loose a slight touch of reality. Tell me, is that healthy babe? The feeling of butterflies by mere thought,we normally feel like it is heaven on earth .The more you get of it, the stranger it feels says Seal. When it is the early stages of the relationship and is in bloom we say "I fancy you'' then later ''I love you'' when it has blossomed. Every human being has a first love tale to tell, most of  the time the relationship is ruined by external views and how they perceive the relationship. We start seeing flaws that we did not see before while it was just the two of you. I know many successful relationships are characterized by how long you have been together  or the ''high school sweetheart''  fantasy due to virginity but If you think about it, when you were a child, your feelings were not tainted. It was the ideal thing for you and that was yo...
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 LOVE LASTS LONGER THAN LIFE, BUT NOT WHEN YOU CANNOT MANAGE IT. Here are some of the most bleary questions a woman can ask in relations to love and spirituality on their wedding day. Exodus, Gods and Kings. What makes you happy? You do. What is the most important thing in your life? You are. Where would you rather be? Nowhere. Will you ever leave me? Never. Men tend to lose focus when it comes to love. Yes, love is an emotion that since the beginning of time human beings have failed to manage because they forget who fathers it. Who can help you better manage love if  not the creator himself Jehovah? Ask yourself this question, who gave  me the love I feel for my mother and my children unconditionally? The feeling I have for them surely comes from nobility and somewhere a human can not reach hence it has sub emotions like happiness, caring, compassion, anger and many more.  I mean, it gets to a point where human beings kill to protect what is dear to them. Did y...