AN ADDICTION MANKIND COULD NOT DENY WAS A ROMANTIC LOVE STORY. 

A drug lethal enough to make one loose a slight touch of reality. Tell me, is that healthy babe?

The feeling of butterflies by mere thought,we normally feel like it is heaven on earth .The more you get of it, the stranger it feels says Seal. When it is the early stages of the relationship and is in bloom we say "I fancy you'' then later ''I love you'' when it has blossomed. Every human being has a first love tale to tell, most of  the time the relationship is ruined by external views and how they perceive the relationship. We start seeing flaws that we did not see before while it was just the two of you. I know many successful relationships are characterized by how long you have been together  or the ''high school sweetheart''  fantasy due to virginity but If you think about it, when you were a child, your feelings were not tainted. It was the ideal thing for you and that was your real true love.

The scapegoat phrase most of us use is ''we were young'' but the heart says otherwise because the two of you were intertwined souls.Adam and Eve felt the same way because they were the only 2 living human beings. Most of us fail when we believe the theory, I can not say ''NO''to love. Most of the time we take this decision when we feel like we are mature and confident enough to inspire the best decision. At that moment, your emotions are in-sync and the society approves of it. I have a PhD, he has one, he is my ideal match. It is embarrassing for me to date someone I love because society,family and peers do not approve. Fast-forward 10 years later with the ''ideal match'', you realize the only thing you have in common is titles not real love hence you seek it your whole life after divorce. Tell me is that healthy?

Divorce is a bit tricky for your public relations because the society sees you as the perfect married couple. There is about 3 children you need to consider before taking the best decision. Who bleeds the most? The female because she is considered damaged goods and has to compromise on the next relationship. The man has another exciting story ahead, It is his ''I do not love you anymore'' version. There is a new young secretary in office fresh from college, who is more exciting and intriguing.   It is an addiction mankind can not deny,  Love remains a drug that gets you higher than a pill or powder. Nothing on earth as we know it can supersede its effects. 

Inspired by Seal, Kiss from a rose

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